The most popular type of sex that women have with men doesn't tend be conducive to female orgasm. Penis-in-vagina intercourse isn't likely to make a woman come. The real secret to how to cum lies in the clitoris. Here's everything you need to know and a bunch of techniques to try. Despite what pretty much every heterosexual sex scene on-screen has led us to believe, the vast majority of women require much more than a few thrusts of penis-in-vagina intercourse to be able to reach orgasm. Namely, the key to getting off for most women is the holy grail of clitoral stimulation.
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Could you be having better sex , a better orgasm, or a better relationship? How often do you actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how you might actually achieve those things? According to Vanessa Marin , sex therapist , it helps to go into the specifics of how to masturbate , because knowing several ways to get yourself off is something everybody should have in their skillset. Maybe you've heard the advice that you need to learn how to get yourself off by masturbating. You've tried masturbating before but just can't figure out how to do it without a vibrator.